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Originally Posted by intensity_too  Here's an interesting thing to consider. My hubby measured an average 5 1/2 inches, and depending on the position, he could really hurt me with that thing. He'd slam into the end of my cervix and it would hurt to the point that we'd have to change positions. There were numerous times in the 9 years we were together that I would use the bathroom post sex to find that he had made me bleed.
Now, I am with a guy that is around 7 inches in length, and no matter how deep he thrusts or what position we are in, it doesn't hurt at all. He's never made me bleed post sex, and we've never had to change positions due to pain.
How the hell does that work out??? |
One member already replied saying that it is his technique, which is probably true, yet I doubted that he focusing on missing your cervix on every thrust. Possibly the the shape or thickness guides his penis into you on a different agle without much effort from him.
It really is about the angle of penetration when it comes to hitting the cervix. If the head of the penis follows the rear wall of the vagina and glides over the cervix without ramming it, the penis will slide up into the posterior fornix of the vagina. It is only 1 to 2 inches deeper than the cervix, but it can make all the difference. Yet, a very long penis can even push up into the posterior fornix too much and still cause pain. Every woman is different as to how much pressure she enjoys, and it may even change during one intercourse session. A man with a long penis should gradually go deeper and read his partners reactions, or talk and communicate.