First time is in the books!!
Our first full encounter is in the books! What an amazing experience!
This was actually the third time we saw the couple in person after "meeting" them on a swinger site. The first was at a simple meet-and-greet at a bar, the second being an arranged meeting at our first visit to a lifestyle club, and the third last night at another lifestyle club.
This was not the other couple's first experience, but they are relatively new as well. We knew going into last week's meeting that we would not have a full encounter that night. After getting to know each other better last weekend, we decided to get together again and let things happen as they may. We anticipated this week's "date" all week by each individual exchanging emails and chatting with his/her prospective partner.
I won't go into details, but let's just say that we had an incredibly stimulating evening on the dance floor and in our booth at the club before the evening hit its climax (pun intended). Mrs. Joco and I had discussed beforehand whether we would do this together or separately, and decided we'd be ok either way. The other couple is more comfortable with separate encounters, so that's how it went. By the time all was said and done, it was an extremely erotic evening and a great time was had by all. Afterwards, L said that she nearly chickened out, but was glad that she didn't.
We're looking forward to continuing our new adventure. It definitely won't be what our lives revolve around, but we'll certainly enjoy the occasional adventure along the way!
Nearly five months had elapsed between our first serious discussion and last night's encounter. Through it all we've talked, researched, spoken with others, talked some more, researched some more, fantasized a little bit (ok - a lot), and talked some more. This site has been a primary resource for us. As such, I do want to thank everyone who participates in the operation of the site and in the discussions here. What a fantastic resource this has been for us as we sought information, advice, and reassurance. Hopefully as time goes on, we can use our experiences along the way to help others who are exploring their curiosities in the same way all of you have for us.
-- M
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