Re: Who are Poly Folks Here?
G,
I think that a lot of it also has to do with how long we have been in the lifestyle (what ever that means to each of us) and how we got there in the first place. I think that couples who have been swinges for many, many years do not want anything more involved in "swinger friends" where the relationship is very casual at the most. I think a lot of that has to do with them probably starting before the internet. Those were the rules of the day in swinging.
We have been swinging for right at two years. We backed into swinging. So our view of life is affected by having many more options, one of which is poly. The lines of each group, poly, swinging, etc. are bluring more every day. But still, it is to each their own in how they want to live their lives. We just have more options today.
S
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