Re: Trying to talk my wife into swinging
My wife also refuses to share her fantasies. She regularly uses her vibrator when I'm not around. I've asked her what she fantasizes about when she is masturbating. Nothing, she says. "I just get into the feeling." Maybe so. I just need to get a vision in my head to cum. I'd thought that if she did have a fantasy, we might get to the point where she welcomed acting it out at a swing club. We do go to swing clubs. Both of us love the erotic atmosphere, and have great sex in the private rooms. When I've suggested having sex in the more open areas, she has said no. This is interesting to me because she loves to cum on the jacuzzi jets, and doesn't care how many people are in the hot tub. This situation changed on our last visit to the Sea Mountain Nude Spa in Desert Hot Springs. There were 8 couples in the spa pool. We had been drinking for several hours. My wife switched from sitting on my lap to facing the jet. She positioned herself on the jet and told me to play with her ass. While she worked the jet on her clit she looked around to see if people were watching. When she began to cum, I fucked her ass with my finger. After several powerful orgasms, she turned to me and said,"Did my ass like your finger?" "Oh yes," I said. Next she said,"All the guys were watching and smiling."
She saw that the DJ was playing some club music in the playroom. "Let's go in there and dance," she said. As the beat became hotter, 3 couples laid down on the round bed. My wife pulled me down on the bed and pushed my head down between her legs. All of the other women were being eaten by their their partners. My wife was worked into a frenzy, and said, to my complete surprise, "Fuck me!" I quickly entered her. Looking at the other couples on the bed, I saw that all were fucking. What a turn on. My wife loved it. We went back to our room where she gave me a great blow job.
We haven''t talked about this experience. She apparently likes to separate the reality of what she likes to do when she has a buzz from how she feels when sober. I just hope that our next trip to the Sea Mountain will bring us even more adventure.
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