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Old 12-16-2008, 01:02 PM   #11 (permalink)
Alura
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Default Re: Helping couples who are uncomfortable at parties

We host two parties a year, where both vanilla and life style folks attend. Over the course of the evening we usually have between forty and seventy people here.

The more abundant the guest list the harder it is, of course, to spend time with everybody. Still, we try to approach each person and chat for awhile. When folks arrive, we serve them their first drink and explain that they are on their own for the second, since they know where the drinks are.

We also try to spend some one-on-one time with some special friends, just to let them know they're special. We have a "conversation chair" (also known as the "double blowjob chair") which works well for that purpose.

Mr. Alura
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