 Re: Who are Poly Folks Here?
IMHO...for what it's worth. I feel the Internet has made alternative lifestyles available to anyone, at least for investigation. If my wife and I had only clubs and swinger mags to get information, we would have never even considered swinging. Boards like these and other dating-type lifestyle sites allowed us to investigate and talk to folks without fear. That said, I feel like some kind of light-poly is more natural to the bulk of folks out there. I would be willing to bet that most folks would prefer to have one or more couples to be close friends and exclusive with verses a new playmate or couple all the time. I am NOT putting down anyone who likes the variety. I am just saying that everyone (mostly, right?) likes sex, and who doesn't want to have fantasy sex? Allot of us are just not comfortable being promiscuous, but we still want to have freaky sex. Some sort of FWB or poly is a comfortable alternative to swinging. It kinda fits into what you're already used too...dating, getting to know someone, sex with just those someones.
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