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Tia Vampire · 12-15-2008, 11:06 PM

I (the female) half will atleast say, "hello" or ask them, "how they're doing tonight"? Any small talk to make them feel welcomed. If I see them bobbing their head to a song, I'll also ask them if they would like to dance, even if I do not care for the song. I remember those days ol' so well when we just sat in the corner waitng for someone to be friendly to us. I'm a social butterfly at the club we frequent, but anywhere else, I would feel out of my element until I got some liquor inside of me. Just enough to calm the anxiety.

12-15-2008, 11:06 PM	#2 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,059 Location: Florida Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:tiavampire	Re: Helping couples who are uncomfortable at parties I (the female) half will atleast say, "hello" or ask them, "how they're doing tonight"? Any small talk to make them feel welcomed. If I see them bobbing their head to a song, I'll also ask them if they would like to dance, even if I do not care for the song. I remember those days ol' so well when we just sat in the corner waitng for someone to be friendly to us. I'm a social butterfly at the club we frequent, but anywhere else, I would feel out of my element until I got some liquor inside of me. Just enough to calm the anxiety.