Coupleproyect, I agree with Nymph an' Satyr. He is probably feeling threatened and confused in the change of heart. Many times the idea of swinging never leaves the fantasy stage. I know it made for some great times in our bedroom, even when I was opposed to the idea of it becoming reality.
Move at the speed of your fiance and if you can, get him to read this board with you. As Nymph said, the New Swingers forum will give you an abundance of information that will help you to decided if it is something that the both of you would like to participate in. Don't skip the archives either....especially the one on Jealousy.
Good luck.
Lori
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