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Old 12-11-2008, 01:29 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: Trying to coach her into the lyfestyle...
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Originally Posted by intuition897 View Post

I'd also like to add that if you do get started, do not try separate rooms or kiss and tell type dates. If she's too uncomfortable to have you in the room, she's not ready for it!! You don't have to go all out right out of the gate, you know. You can try milder situations where the clothes stay on. Ask her to point out some guy she's attracted to and tell you what she likes about him. Ask her to tell you what she's thinking while she watches him. Maybe try a situation where she can flirt with someone, or dance with him. Just play around with the idea, and find safe ways to bring the fantasy into the real world.

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