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Alex855 · 12-10-2008, 10:58 PM

Thank you all for the advice. Yeah I am moving at a snail's pace with this. Which is fine by me. The time lapse of my little story actually was about 5 years worth. I know we still have a long way to go but to me, her actually talking about it outside the bedroom was a huge step! meaning that it's in her mind now and actually craving other men. Whether we go through with it only time will tell. Like I said baby steps. What is the next step? not sure maybe point out a guy in crowd that I know she will be attracted to and ask her questions regarding her attraction to him and what she would do. Just to keep the communication open.

bbarns,

Thank you for the link and word of caution. Trust me it will not fall on deaf ears.

12-10-2008, 10:58 PM	#5 (permalink)
Alex855 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 27 Location: CA Status: m	Re: Trying to coach her into the lyfestyle... Thank you all for the advice. Yeah I am moving at a snail's pace with this. Which is fine by me. The time lapse of my little story actually was about 5 years worth. I know we still have a long way to go but to me, her actually talking about it outside the bedroom was a huge step! meaning that it's in her mind now and actually craving other men. Whether we go through with it only time will tell. Like I said baby steps. What is the next step? not sure maybe point out a guy in crowd that I know she will be attracted to and ask her questions regarding her attraction to him and what she would do. Just to keep the communication open. bbarns, Thank you for the link and word of caution. Trust me it will not fall on deaf ears.