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Originally Posted by dgoody1234  I really appreciate the responses. I have to admit I thought I would read something like iapr's posts.
You are right that we are in no way ready to experience anything like swinging. The fact of the matter is that I push my wife because I have the fantasies and I use alcohol to loosen her up and have her say what I want -- obviously that is not totally healthy, or fair.
I don't want to ever share my wife with another man and am completely selfish, and will admit that I just want the freedom to do what I want to do -- I guess I am getting that itch for other women and want the permission to be with them. I guess I figure that if she came along for the experience then I could never be blamed for cheating. I thought the idea of an escort would be the best way because I could keep it all business and be with a professional that wouldn't complicate things.
As far as the comments about the drinking, it's all me. I have a very addicting type personality and tend to use alcohol frequently for various reasons. I can see that pursuing this thinking is only going to end up badly and I am best suited to keep the fantasies to her and move on.
Thanks for the advice. |
Wow. I'm honestly surprised at your honesty. From your first post, I was thinking exactly what you said above. That you sounded very selfish and this was all about you.
You are abusing your wife by using alchohol to loosen her up. One day she'll get sober and get smart and leave your selfish ass, and then you can have all the sex with other women you want.