I don't think MIbbwcpl is being extreme, but calling a halt to your meetings - even temporarily - may not be necessary. You say you've had encounters since that have been pleasurable and have preserved your boundaries.
If this man is receptive when you talk to him about your concerns, then why give up a relationship that is otherwise satisfying your desires.
I'd certainly agree with everyone else though. This was a breach of your trust, and you're right to take steps to knock it on the head now. |