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Old 12-07-2008, 07:44 PM   #11 (permalink)
MrkLin
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Default Re: Help Letting Go and Taking the Plunge

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Originally Posted by dnmnms View Post
Well, if ya go in and fuck him in front of his football buddies I dont figure you will have to have that talk LOL. Hell, invite the buddies to join. KIDDING...Sorry couldnt resist!

Melody
Well, it's been an hour and a half... I wonder...

KIDDING!

Mark here. Lin was, until about 6 years ago, a bit hesitant to bring up a new subject, and we've been married for 20 years. It happens. Something you need to think about though, Rayna, is that you'll need to have the confidence in yourself to tell him not only what you want, but what you don't want. If something starts to happen that you really don't want to happen, you have to be able to say stop. From a guy's perspective, I can tell you that your husband would want you to be able to tell him anything at all. That's one of the meanings of true intimacy - the ability to freely discuss your innermost thoughts without fear or hesitation.
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