I got this letter from Kelli & Jack, one of the many couple who have submitted several great stories to the Swinger Stories area. I decided to post it here (with their permission) rather than in the stories section itself (although I will be including a link in the stories section to this topic). I'm sure that they aren't the only authors who have recieved emails of this kind and I thought that posting this here would give others a chance to respond as well.
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Here is a little different story. Not sure that it fits, but I am sure that your other writers will enjoy the response because we all receive tons of great e-mails from most, and a few who just don't understand how comfortable swinging can be, or even how much it can do for an already healthy relationship
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Most of us who write these stories are sharing a part of our hearts and souls to share our adventures.
Please understand that I know I have to thicken my skin, but please understand that we don't get paid for what we write. I glow when someone sends a note saying how much they enjoyed the story. I'm stunned when they compliment my writing style. But I am also stunned by those who are in disbelief.
Swingers exist everywhere. Sensational stories come out of many of those encounters. I thought, and think, that I am doing a favor for those of you who enjoy reading my tales. And that favor has been repaid many times over by the kind and thoughtful responses.
We are in the middle of conversations with a few people nearby and from around the world (well Australia anyway) who may meet us on vacation to see what we can get up to. But if you think it is hard to fit schedules together for meetings with a couple or two around town, just try making it work when couples from 12,000 miles away try to meet – here, there, Or in between.
Now, please read the e-mails we got that made me need to respond, and then my response........it's not all vim and vinegar. But, it also is not a narrative on a great weekend we had that would qualify as a story I want to tell for the way our little sexual and/or sensual kismet took place. I do hope you publish it anyway.
It's about why what you read from me is the real stuff......names are changed, although I do leave some similarities that will tip off the people we have lost contact with and would love to find again. The details, locations, numbers of people, even the color of eyes, hair, skin, or sheets, clothes, or condoms are exactly what I remember ( and sometimes corrected after discussion with jack who acts as the editor while he checks facts and grammar). We've even cheated you, the reader, out of some juicy details, just cuz we just couldn't agree as to what happened or how it happened a particular time.
Anyway, if you can find enough sexy stuff in it, publish it. Maybe include the note to you too. Thanks again,
Kelli
I love the positive comments….but there are others as well………….
By Kelli in St Louis
This is what the reader wrote:
>Just read Kelly shocks Jack in Vegas. I'm not into swinging,and my wife is waaay not into it, but I love reading
>these stories. Only one thing-did you have to say that the guys cock was well over 12 >inches?That kinda make >the story sound fake.
My response was:
>sorry to hurt your ego, and………jack and I were both shocked, and impressed, as well, but the truth is, Scotts dick >was well over 12"…………probably just over 13", but certainly over 12" easilly. and it was both thick, and very hard >too.
>Kelli
Here is his reply to my reply.
>Hey, it had nothing to do with my ego. It wasn't my wife banging a guy with a giant one. My point was that it >made the story seem unreal,like the Penthouse Forum letters where everybody is 8,9,or 10 inches. If it really was >12 or better,than good for you. But how do you go back to your mans 6 >incher after that?
Now that was even easier to answer, so please read a little "stream of consciousness" rantings from "cute little, sweet little, soft spoken, me."
Love, dedication, and commitment.......that helps a lot......find it before you swing.
Attention. Caring. Acceptance of each other's desires.
Voyeurism.
Exhibitionism.
Experimentation.
That nagging wonder about whether really "big" penises truly exist. Ask for them exclusively in sexy chat rooms or in your profile and you will be flooded with guys and pictures of their "little/big guys". And, some of them might just turn out to be a semi-normal guy who you would consider meeting or meating.
The curiosity about the rumors that most dicks of greater proportion have a minor to often major problem with firmness The biggest I've seen was not very firm, but most of the others were........and we have seen quite a few more than we have played with because you just can't desire everybody or even have the time for those you do.
And then the curiosity ran to the multiple comments over the years from friends who had their first, or repeated, experiences with truly oversized dicks that hurt them either a little--some said that was good while others said that it was horrible and had to be ended early--some said it was horrible, they had to stop (and some were even out of commission for a day or two, while others adapted and had great fun…..some made rules about how far he was to thrust, others shifted to more oral or positions where they had more control over what parts and what strokes could work.
Jack was all for it. He was amazed at the size, especial since Scott was not a very big guy otherwise.
Jack also likes seeing me get so turned by on another guy with a different technique and/or different size, or a bi lady (with or without hubbies till we want them there) that I finally let loose and get so involved I really come at a whole different level.
So, Scott was my first real big cock, but I was "spoiled" as you would have us believe by your comments by both of my earliest boyfriends because they were both exactly 8 and a half inches.
My first was very thick. It was awkward, and a bit painful the first two or three times. I adapted to its size and the sex got great.
The second was much skinnier (he even apologized for its small size despite its length !) but it was my favorite because I could really feel exactly where it was bottoming out, and he loved to shift his hips every third or forth thurst from a different angle (advantage -- skinny dicks).
I've had six inchers, seven's, and a even a couple of tens, over the years.
But, I've also had a couple of five's, four's, and there was one guy in my long distant past who I dated for six months, active sexually after 1.5 of those months. He has a buff body. A nice guy. One of the most romantic I ever met. His penis, fully erect (harder than any before, or after -- heck, it is actually harder than some toys I have) is two and three quarters of an inch long. Erect.....and then it almost entirely withdrew into his ball sac and pelvis when soft.
That is measured with the ruler pushed hard into his pelvis, measuring along the top. 2.75" with a head that measures 1.75" across and a shaft about .75" accross Someone else can figure out the circumference (is it PI R squared?). But that is small. Still, he, and it, were good. I had to adapt, but my grip with my keegle muscles got great.
Jack isn't hung like these guys, but he finds me quite tight with his dick (6 when just barely hard, 7+ when really turned on), tongue (shorter) and fingers (various lengths, and they come in sets {and sometimes, they make me cum in sets too). Remember, most of our sexlife is just the two of us at home. In love, and very able to make true love just with each other. We are also quite able to then choose to be kinkier and more inventive when we feel like it.
It's just the rare occasion that the time and desire for adding a body or two to our fun gets to the top of our to-do list.
And then Jack feels he is giving me some size and position from the other guys that he will never be able to give me himself.
He also relishes my taste for bisexual fun. It's always giggly fun, it always get us all off real good (even if he only get to beat off sometimes). And at times, it gets him a threesome or more with beautiful young ladies who are truly BI and interested in sex with both parts of a couple (sometimes by herself, sometimes with hubby, and one time, with two of her girlfriends in tow).
And then there are the couples.
First timers. Both the dedicated and those scared out their skin. This can be the very best, but that is only if it isn't the worst.
Those couples who started the night pissed off at each other, but came to your meeting anyway. Good luck with these.
Or our dream couples who just naturally made us feel comfortable. Quite a few of these have easily made up for having to wade through the others.
The few other lovers we've gotten together with over the years seem to agree that big dicks, don't stretch you out for long. The vagina is quite elastic. The more you squeeze the stronger your muscles get. The stronger you get those keegles, the tighter everyone will feel you are.
I had a baby, and was quite loose for more than six months. With keegle exercises, I am sure I am tighter now than after high school.
We like to swing a little, usually, two or three time a year. Usually on vacation. We try to meet a new friend or two. BI ladies alone are the dream, but we are realists, and couples with BI females are easier to find. And those slightly more rare times come along when we just want a studlike, yet gentlemanly, guy to get some serious fucking in.
There is a lot to be said about " it's not the size, its the ability".
But there is still a lot to be said for sheer size too.
Big boobs catch the eye, but most people we have really talked heart to heart to about it find that a semi-small to medium, well formed, natural breast, seems to have more sensitivity, and is considerably easier to delicately caress.
Big dicks can provide the same problems. And others.
And, smaller dicks often get invited into places that big dicks just aren't as welcome. Hhmm?
I hope this exposure to my observations on the human penis has allowed you to understand that I wasn't sensationalizing when I described our friend's dick.
We prefer to meet couples, but have loved most of our threesome attempts as well. BI females of South Florida, please get in touch, with or without a significant other. Our vacation is coming up. And we will have the time to really make it comfortable for a BI-curious lady to have her first experience be a dream like mine was.
May 2 through 12 at Haulover Beach. The only legal nude beach in America which is located at the very farthest north part of Miami County, FL.
Please get in touch immediately, the computer isn't going with us so we will have to make contact this week. Or on the nude beach section at Haulover.
Kelli
kelliandjackstlmo@msn.com
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