I know you want to hear from a woman, but Mrs.fun and I are close enough to how we feel. So I'm typing here, with approval. I think I understand how you feel though, through Mrs funs own feelings.
My point is, I think Mrs fun had a good idea and certainty that she was ready. I kind of postponed a few things as we talked over and over.
One day, as she was browsing profiles. As I can assure you, those amounts of (profile times viewed) were her
.I was sitting at the table reading the paper and she would show me this one or that one at the computer.
She looked at me and sighed, then said " Whelp, We gonna shit or get of the pot "
I know that sounds sooooo wrong. I hope I don't get " I wish you wouldn't have told them that" Later
But its important because, she spoke to me in man language. I understood at that very moment we were no longer going to keep talking and actually.... Do It.
Again my point is, that was some of the greatest words spoken to me, with clarity. I understood as a man without a doubt. I don't think it could have moved further because of my lack of understanding of my own wifes feelings, at the time.
She actually spoke to me on my terms. She has to do that sometimes. So I "get it"......
Only one thing could have out done her communication skills. That would have been the " Double dog dare " I'm kinda glad she saved that for later on
Keep talking until you ready, Let your husband know when. You will know how to say it, You women are so smart like that
I noticed you said he has a few men in mind. Is he clear on how you can choose one, and not the other ?