 Re: Just the facts. Need your advice.
1. I think you two should talk about your desires without alcohol, and when not having sex.
2. I think sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality.
3 You should spend a lot of time reading the forums dealing with jealousy, and new couple concerns.
4. You should show her this board, and encourage her to explore some of the subjects discussed around here.
Is swinging for you? I don't know. Maybe, maybe not. You have indicated some issues that are what I consider to be red flags though. Read this board together, and talk, talk, talk. Whatever the outcome, your relationship will be better for it.
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