Re: Christian couple, how we started with swinging.
More people have been killed under the auspices of religion than for any other reason. The Crusades, WWII, even most of the current wars being fought can be boiled down to religious differences. Both of us were brought up very conservative in very religious homes (protestant ministers in both). We do not go to church. I am an athiest. This does not make me a bad person, it makes me an indiviual who is capable of making a free choice about what to believe. Just as an aside, the freedom of choice is how judeo-christians explain horrors such as child molestation. Religion is not a determinant of good or evil. Actions determine if a person is good or evil. Politics do not determine if a person is good or evil. We can disagree with a person about politics, religion, or child rearing methods and still find common ground in other areas. Swinging is about sex and friendship (for some of us). Maybe Tnswing did mean that they are no longer going to engage in the lifestyle because they have found that they have truly found each other and that is exactly what they want. No one else is going to have the exact same views as they do and if they do find someone who does, why "step out" there?
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