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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  Did anyone actually make such a list before they got into swinging? |
I'd say swinging is something you can't write the list for until AFTER you do it.
Before swinging list....
Pro - I'd like to have sex with other people.
Con - I might kill the guy having sex with my wife and end up in PMITA prison.
Its a leap of faith really, as most of the real issues don't make themselves clear until after you do it.
One con I've posted about a while ago, was that after swinging, sexual things that were real turn ons for you become normal and far less of a turn on. Your arousal point increases. Thats one you can't really figure out until you are already there.