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Originally Posted by mrfunfan  Anyway, long story short, She has always had more fun until I started opening up and flirting with girls more and getting more attention and aroused. When I was able to finally full swap she got insecure about it and decided no longer wanted to share me.
I was shocked and hurt that she wasn't happy for me and resentful because I never got to experience what everyone else has with my own wife. I love her and this is just fulfilling fantasies and nothing has ever changed for me. |
There are a million warning bells going off in my head about this. If she has a problem because you begin enjoying yourself after SIX YEARS of her enjoying herself, to me, this is a problem in the overall dynamics of your relationship and not necessarily just a swinging issue. Either she has done something that is leading her now to believe that you'll do as she has done, or she does not see you as equals--partners who both deserve to equally have a good time in the hobby you've taken up for half a dozen years.
I absolutely would have a heart-to-heart with her about how this development appears. I also would take a break from swinging [both of you!] until you can come to a closer understanding of each other.
Pepper