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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  If you were to make a pro/con list for swinging, what would it look like? What your pros for swinging be? And your reasons against it?
Did anyone actually make such a list before they got into swinging? |
We didn't make such a list. But, we did read other similar things.
For us, there's been no serious cons. If there's a con, it's that it's been hard at times to play what is in essence the dating game.
Pros:
* The sex after playing has a whole different energy to it that we thoroughly enjoy.
* Meeting other people in a nice, open environment.
* Lots of great in and out of bed talk for us on swinging in general.
* Lots of laughter over all sorts of swing related things.
* Having a great time during play.
* As a couple, we already had a phenomenal relationship before getting into swinging. Swinging's added another dimension of intimacy to us.
Etc.