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Old 12-02-2008, 10:21 AM   #13 (permalink)
slevin
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Default Re: Want to try a MFM threesome and I thought hubby was on board.

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Originally Posted by ViSexual View Post
What does it matter that it's another spouse instead of a single person? What can a single person do that a married one can't?
I think that there is a big difference mentally for many people between a married couple and a single person, even if you're having a threesome with the married half of a couple. If you've already played with them as a couple you have gotten to know them both and gotten a comfort level with their relationship. With a single person many people have that lingering concern that they have a hidden agenda (trying to setup a meet alone, trying to get a relationship, getting attached...).

All things that can happen with someone who is in a relationship too, but I think there is less concern about it being a serious problem for many people. I know that starting out that was definitely true for me. Right now I'm not sure exactly how I feel about it other than I know for sure that it is something that can happen with anyone
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