 Re: Want to try a MFM threesome and I thought hubby was on board.
There's a huge difference between fantasy and reality. Sure, your husband was turned on enough by your chats with this guy to masturbate. But that doesn't mean he's ready or willing to share you in that way. Have you ASKED your husband why he seems to be reluctant to at least meet this guy?
Whatever his answer, I'd be more concerned with your hubby's feelings than those of the other guy's.
Talk it through with him, and try to be patient. I know it's not always easy when you're the one who's ready to move on and your partner isn't. But that's the nature of the lifestyle. You travel at the pace of the slowest runner.
Perhaps you could compromise by trying a threesome with a couple? Granted, it's not a "true" threesome, but it's worked out well for us.
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