The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Want to try a MFM threesome and I thought hubby was on board.

***JustAskJulie*** · 12-01-2008, 03:18 PM

One conclusion we've had to come to in this lifestyle is that it's not important what others think or feel. If someone else has expectations that don't get fulfilled then it's THEIR issue for having the expectations in the first place.

At this point all you've done is had some fun chat with the guy, there is no reason to assume from that that it will go to anything more. Unless I missed something you haven't even met him in person yet. Perhaps your husband is a bit worried after seeing all the "witty banter" back and forth between you that if you do meet you will get too close?

A lot of times the idea/ fantasy of something is great but when you are faced with the reality of it coming true you realize that there is more to consider than you really thought.

12-01-2008, 03:18 PM	#7 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Want to try a MFM threesome and I thought hubby was on board. One conclusion we've had to come to in this lifestyle is that it's not important what others think or feel. If someone else has expectations that don't get fulfilled then it's THEIR issue for having the expectations in the first place. At this point all you've done is had some fun chat with the guy, there is no reason to assume from that that it will go to anything more. Unless I missed something you haven't even met him in person yet. Perhaps your husband is a bit worried after seeing all the "witty banter" back and forth between you that if you do meet you will get too close? A lot of times the idea/ fantasy of something is great but when you are faced with the reality of it coming true you realize that there is more to consider than you really thought.