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You have accidentally went past your husband's comfort zone. I agree with Chicup--drop the single man of the moment. It will show your husband that he's more important to you. What you accidentally created was jealousy by becoming "friends" or "attached" to the single man through the emails. You might need to play with single men the way that I do: my husband loves to watch me with single men, but only once with that particular man, and only if I find them at a club...no strings attached. He's very clear that he doesn't want repetition because of his fear that feelings could get involved. My guess is that your husband probably thinks the same way as mine. The great news is that it doesn't rule out MFMs, it just changes how you look for them and respond to them. And btw, I always ask my husband for approval on my choices of playmates. If for any reason, he doesn't like the guy, it's off.