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Originally Posted by synergy  Here is the problem.... my husband seems to be hesitating on setting up a meeting. I'm sensing jealousy... Now this is somewhat frustrating because I now I'm feeling comfortable and excited about trying this new thing, not to mention I'd feel like we led this individual on and flaked. I mentioned this to my husband and he says I shouldn't be so concerned about other people.
How should I approach this situation?? |
You should approach the situation by dropping it.
My wife and I have been swingers for years, we have had MFM's in the context of swinging couples we know, many times, but I still would not be comfortable bringing a single male into the mix for a good number of reasons.
Also just because you chatted on the internet a bit doesn't mean you owe this guy anything. Thats a bit of an excuse on your part to push this with your husband.
If you really want a threesome, approach it in the context of couples you have met and he would be comfortable with. Believe it or not there is a BIG leap from MFMF to MFM in a lot of peoples minds. Hell even AS the extra male it took me several times to be 100% comfortable with the idea.