The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Want to try a MFM threesome and I thought hubby was on board.

slevin · 12-01-2008, 09:30 AM

I for sure agree that your primary focus should be on what you and your husband are comfortable with. While you may feel that you've led the guy on a bit, that should not impact your decision about whether to meet him or not. It definitely shouldn't make you feel any sort of obligation. If your husband is suddenly hesitant about it then talk with him about it. Perhaps he just needs a bit of reassurance, but if not then what is most important is you two. There are lots of single guys out there to talk to in the future when he gets comfortable with things.

12-01-2008, 09:30 AM	#3 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,215 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: Want to try a MFM threesome and I thought hubby was on board. I for sure agree that your primary focus should be on what you and your husband are comfortable with. While you may feel that you've led the guy on a bit, that should not impact your decision about whether to meet him or not. It definitely shouldn't make you feel any sort of obligation. If your husband is suddenly hesitant about it then talk with him about it. Perhaps he just needs a bit of reassurance, but if not then what is most important is you two. There are lots of single guys out there to talk to in the future when he gets comfortable with things.