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Old 12-01-2008, 07:19 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Want to try a MFM threesome and I thought hubby was on board.

Synergy,

As you well know, it is a big leap taking a fantasy to reality. Take baby steps. Ok, you have chatted with this guy on-line. So far, he seems ok. But in reality, you don't know anything about him. All too often guys will take things this far then when you want to meet them over drinks in a safe place, "Poof" the are gone! Take baby steps and make sure that your husband knows that both of you have to agree on the next step. So, having said that..

1. See if your husband is even interested in meeting this guy over drinks with the understanding that that is the only thing that is going to happen. If he says no, end contact with the guy politely. Then sit down with your husband and patiently find out why not.

2. If he does want to meet him, do it on terms that you are both comfortable with. End the meeting as agreed. Then discuss your next step

Good luck!

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