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For years, my husband has brought up his fantasy of a mfm situation during our love-making. I could tell that it really excited him to fantasize about watching me f*** another man. At first, it really turned me off because I didn't want to complicate our great intimacy. One of the best things about our almost 20 year relationship has been the lack of drama.

Well, now we are full fledged swingers for about a year (have had many fun experiences with couples) and we have yet to engage in a threesome except for a brief and casual fmf with a friend early in our relationship. I have chatted with a few single guys online and have found someone I am intrigued to meet. My husband accepted the chat invitation from the man and appeared to enjoy himself as he was masterbating while watching the two of us in our witty back and forth banter. From our conversation, the single guy seems like a respectful, intelligent and attractive man who appreciates the no strings appeal of this type of interaction.

Here is the problem.... my husband seems to be hesitating on setting up a meeting. I'm sensing jealousy... Now this is somewhat frustrating because I now I'm feeling comfortable and excited about trying this new thing, not to mention I'd feel like we led this individual on and flaked. I mentioned this to my husband and he says I shouldn't be so concerned about other people.

How should I approach this situation??