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Originally Posted by CuriousLeo's  I do wonder why so many said M/M activity...With so much bi acceptance of the women, it bugs me to see them say its an "ick" |
MM activity is an ick for us. Smoking is an ick for you (well us too). It has nothing to do with tolerance, its just not something we enjoy seeing or find sexy as a couple.
I personally just get grossed out seeing two men having sex. I view it as appealing as bestiality. Now of course when I say this it gets some bi/gay males all up in arms that I'm comparing homosexual activities to bestiality, but thats not the case at all, I'm just pointing out when I see it, I find it as sexually appealing as bestiality on a personal level. It just triggers an ick reaction.
Now if you were in a swing club, walking into a group room and someone was going down on a poodle, odds are most people would be rather uncomfortable and most likely not return to that club. Again I know its a harsh sounding analogy but I'm trying to convey the feeling something mostly universal in the lack of appeal. This has come up before on these boards and yes there are a number of couples/men/women who feel the same way, its just ick.
But I stress, again, its not a judgment call, its not condemnation, its just that when two women go at it, we think 'nice' and when two men we think 'ick'.
We are just wired that way.