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slevin · 11-26-2008, 06:50 PM

One other thing (and you're really the only one who can tell here since you were there). The fact that she took the lead in making the leap, focused on him, was uncomfortable with YOU there trying to get involved all makes me start thinking that she had been wanting to fuck this guy long before you brought up the MFM idea. This was her opportunity and your fantasy of MFM didn't mesh with her fantasy of fucking him.

Also, the way you worded things feels like you got her to open up to the idea of your fantasy. You had a specific script in mind you wanted to happen. In my experience the best times happen when what we are doing is also her fantasy and that we understand what turns us both on, but don't necessarily have a script.

Couple of things to think about.

11-26-2008, 06:50 PM	#4 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,215 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: Help First MFM experience sort of One other thing (and you're really the only one who can tell here since you were there). The fact that she took the lead in making the leap, focused on him, was uncomfortable with YOU there trying to get involved all makes me start thinking that she had been wanting to fuck this guy long before you brought up the MFM idea. This was her opportunity and your fantasy of MFM didn't mesh with her fantasy of fucking him. Also, the way you worded things feels like you got her to open up to the idea of your fantasy. You had a specific script in mind you wanted to happen. In my experience the best times happen when what we are doing is also her fantasy and that we understand what turns us both on, but don't necessarily have a script. Couple of things to think about.