[eric1010]

Long story short. My best friend of 15 years came over this past Saturday which has been a ongoing thing for the last couple of months since we moved back down to Florida. Anyway, my wife and I have been talking about the lifestyle and threesomes etc. over the last 2 years and I have gotten her interested in the MFM threesome to this point and that is about it. So my friend came over this past Saturday and one thing led to another, drinking ensued and the next thing that happens is that my wife, friend and I started hanging out on our yacht that we have parked in the back of our house since we live on the ocean and all of us had quite a few to drink. My wife leads my best friend down to the cabin, tells my friend to sit on the couch, kneels between his legs then unbuttons his pants and pulls his pants and boxers to the floor and feverishly starts sucking off my friend. My friend was in shock and with a look of approval I told him that it was ok. Anyway, my friend got into it and my wife was definitely into it and going crazy. Here lies the problem. This was our first experience and it was started by my probing. My wife and I are completely straight also just to throw that in. So my wife was giving my friend oral and this of course got me going by watching and so then the intent that I had was that my wife would trade off with both of us and then ultimately what I had envisioned was that I would have sex with her while she was giving my friend oral and then we would trade and then if she was comfortable enough maybe even try to do DP with her. What I envisioned happening ultimately did not happen. What ended up happening was distractions from a couple of the kids knocking on the doors etc. and my wife paying more attention to him then me and the rest went down hill from there. The next day I took my wife out to lunch because what happened the night before was killing me and I wanted to talk to her about what had just happened so we went out. I asked her how she felt about the experience. She said that she had fun, that it was a little weird because it was our first time. I asked her if she felt guilty in any way and she said no because this is something that I initiated with our many talks that we had. I told her that I didn't have any regrets about the experience. I told her that the only thing that bothered me was that I felt left out. She said that she was sorry and that she told me that it would take her a little while to get used to being with someone else since she and I have been married 13 years and that she hadn't been with anyone else in the last 13 years. I asked her what she meant by that and she said that it was weird for her to have me there because I was watching and trying to get involved. Basically, what she was trying to tell me is that she would feel more comfortable being with him alone for the first time before she would feel comfortable about doing a threesome with me included in the mix. What do all of you think about this? My wife and I love each other very much, have excellent communication, have a great sex life and family life etc. My friend has been married 14 years and has 1 daughter himself. He is happily married. I trust both of them immensely. My friend is like a brother to me and that is why this took place in the first place because my wife has a trust with him and I do as well. I want advice from both men and women on this issue. Husband's would you let your wife be with another man alone for the first time so that she would feel more comfortable? Ladies would you want to be with another man alone for the first time if you were in my wife's shoes? Any replies would be greatly appreciated.