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Originally posted by Seymore
I can really understand why someone would want to go farther than what was agreed upon. I mean, what guy hasnt at one time or another tried to get his date to go farther than she said she wanted to?... |
First off I agree with Alura, DragonsLair and Roxy. This was a blatent breach of trust. And it is serious. IMHO. As everthing was cleary defined then anyone who stepped over those bounds is definitely someone I would not be associated with again. Mainstream friends or not.
Seymore, while I understand what you are trying to say and yes things do happen where rules get stretched and broken, but I would like to think that swingers have their teenage years behind them and do not play with the mentality of 'pushing the envelope' when the rules are clearly defined.
Hotcpl, perhaps your talk with him helped them to understand that you have no desire at this time to go any further than what you are both comfortable with. I do hope that is the case. If not, then my suggestion is to cut off all relations and move on to someone who respects your likes in this lifestyle.
Lori