this is an interesting question to me...there's a lot of talk about making rules before an encounter but i have a feeling that in the heat of the moment there's still a lot of grey area, even if rules are made beforehand.
I can really understand why someone would want to go farther than what was agreed upon. I mean, what guy hasnt at one time or another tried to get his date to go farther than she said she wanted to?...i think that if you've gotten together with them since and everything seems cool that there wouldnt be a problem...
on the other hand, the lying would definetely bother me. i cant stand people who lie to me for any reason. and if people cant understand that they're making my wife uncomfortable without a lengthy explanation, then im sure i'd avoid them... |