Re: herpes scares the crap out of us!
thank you all very much for your replies.
one thing i have noticed about this forum, (i have done more reading than posting), is that you all seem to be a very honest, comfortable group of people.
i will do my research, using the forum (thanks for the heads up on searching for "goodtimes") and i will post back here in a few days just so we all have closure.LOL
the poster from vegas might just be right about it not being for me if i am this freaked out by it.
one thing i will say, is that the frankness and honesty with which the majority of you speak tells me that my wife and i would be a lot safer dealing with people "in the lifestyle" rather than a random hookup with someone we met at a bar or a party. (non swing party that is)
thanks for everything, i will post back in a few days,
thor
PS-oh, and i agree that my wife and i should get tested specifically for these things! we will.
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