[hotcpl4unfla]

OK, I'll preface this with a little background. The wife and I have been "softswinging" (no swapping, same room sex only/women playing together) for about 3 months with another couple. The male half of this other cpl and I discussed our boundaries clearly before we began this relationship. (We were all good friends before starting). They were: no sex with the other's spouse, no touching of private areas by the men of the other women's bodies. The same applied to the women and the men. The women, of couse, had free reign of each other's bodies. My wife and I firmly agreed on this also. We figured we needed to start slow, so if all these rules seem excessive, keep in mind we (wife and I) didn't want to get "in over our heads". The problem is, the male of the other couple has become increasingly pushy as far as raising the stakes and pushing the boundaries. On one instance his wife even became upset with him when he spent too much time watching my wife in the throes of ecstasy. He also has suggested games that involve all of us getting naked and letting the hands fall where they may. My wife and I have told him we are not ready for that. He then becomes visibly upset, and tries to get pushy with us, at one point lying to me and telling me he spoke to my wife and she said it was OK, when she really hadn't. Being a male, I think I see where he is going. My gut tells me he wants to swap eventually, and is trying to push us in that direction. We aren't interested. We have had encounters with them since, and they have been pleasurable, and all boundaries have been kept. Am I overreacting? Or does anyone else see a potential problem here? I think what bothers me the most is the lie I caught him in. It almost is a breach of trust.