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Women show signs of herpes more then men, in fact men can have herpes and never show any signs. Herpes can only be tested for by a doctor and only upon a request and in most cases can’t be detected until a outbreak happens. Herpes is more in younger people but that not to say that older people can't get it too. Unless you and your wife been tested for the herpes virus you don’t know if you have it or not. You both could have herpes and just not had any outbreaks as of let. But just to let you know, STD’s in the lifestyle is very low, as long as you use common sense and protection you will have no problems. But if you are this worry about herpes or any other STD’s then maybe this lifestyle is not for you.