[thor-in-vegas]

hi all,

total newbie here.

never "swung" IE, had sex with another couple/woman while in a relationship, but the wife and i have talked about her being very turned on by other women, and have discussed the possibility. (just hot talk for now)

i realize there are more STD's to be worried about, but herpes seems to be something that is VERY prevalent these days, and the person might not even know they have it.

my wife and i have no diseases and want to keep it that way no matter what we choose to experiment with.

so, my question is; is there a test that can be done "on site" to tell if a person has this disease?

i think it might be a bit much to ask our perspective playmate(s) to bring a doctors note, (although i wont rule it out!) but it would be nice if there was a sort of litmus test that we could ask the person to take.

so, to those in the know; does such a test exist?

im sorry if my stance on this offends anyone, but since we are playing with fire so to speak; i do not believe this would be an out of line request to make of a potential playmate.

thanks for any and all info and advice anyone can lend,
happy swinging!
thor