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bitNtim · 11-24-2008, 05:45 PM

We voted that we would rather not use condoms but do on occasion. The occasion when we are with people who are not in committed relationships and who we do not know as friends. We are late 50's and started swinging before we were 30. In our experience, many husbands and wives who profess conditionally to demand condom use will break the rule when they are in separate room situations. We often compare notes on this after a party. Your poll seems to be accurate so far in finding that younger couples will and must use condoms regularly. If I see someone familiar having unprotected sex with their spouse I feel very safe having unprotected sex with them. If they are unfamiliar then I will certainly ask about condom use and never debate the issue if they require them. Anyway, since 1983 we have never had a problem.

11-24-2008, 05:45 PM	#10 (permalink)
bitNtim Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 12 Location: Ontario Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:bitNtim	Re: Does anyone really use condoms? We voted that we would rather not use condoms but do on occasion. The occasion when we are with people who are not in committed relationships and who we do not know as friends. We are late 50's and started swinging before we were 30. In our experience, many husbands and wives who profess conditionally to demand condom use will break the rule when they are in separate room situations. We often compare notes on this after a party. Your poll seems to be accurate so far in finding that younger couples will and must use condoms regularly. If I see someone familiar having unprotected sex with their spouse I feel very safe having unprotected sex with them. If they are unfamiliar then I will certainly ask about condom use and never debate the issue if they require them. Anyway, since 1983 we have never had a problem.