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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  Was this the same club as the first experience?
It definately sounds like some asshole guy found this girl and used her as a ticket (she may have already been a member and maybe she told him and he thought it was a great chance to get something/somewhere/ someone he wouldn't otherwise have the opportunity to do.
I'm sorry that you've had two experiences in a row go this way, but this is not the norm. I've never had it happen in over 10 years in the lifestyle, going to clubs, being involved in a variety of large group sexcapades including gangbangs and the like. I can definately understand how going through that twice would be enough to make you not want to try again, and that's your choice. But, please know that that is not the norm. |
Yes, same club.We really didn't wanna go back TO MM but we got talked into going back by one of our internet friends from AFF .As far as I know there's 3 clubs in Calgary and another one about 30 mins out of town. But this is the only place in town other than the indian casino where smoking is still alowed and while I am not a chain smoker I enjoy smoking especially while clubbing.
The truth is, the other two clubs seemed more selective of it's members, one of them is too new and with a young crowd and to us it felt like a rave place but the other ( CAPC) is just awesome. Small, but well decorated well supplied with snacks, drinks, fruit and the presentation is great, the rooms are well suplied with lubes, towels, etc., non smoking and about 30-40 mins drive.
Since we only went once to the awesome club and didn't knew the usuals or anybody there, and we weren't looking to play with others yet we chose to put behind our first experience and go to the same club that is 5 mins away from home(we have a toddler), where we know a few people and were I could smoke even tho it seems less selective of it's members and is not as nice as CAPC. Being a lifestyle club we expected that everyone plays by the same rules. And we took the advice of some here that said it wasn't the club owners fault for our first crappy time there.
And we did have fun the whole night there, we danced, mingled, met new people it was all good untill the idiot decided to disregard us. He got a rotten deal - poor bastard, I took out on him all my anger and frustration from the first idiot but oh well..........
I don't know, maybe our idea of swingers was that of hippies and free love and now we know that we should've learn more about it before getting into it?