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***JustAskJulie*** · 11-23-2008, 12:11 PM

Was this the same club as the first experience?

It definately sounds like some asshole guy found this girl and used her as a ticket (she may have already been a member and maybe she told him and he thought it was a great chance to get something/somewhere/ someone he wouldn't otherwise have the opportunity to do.

I'm sorry that you've had two experiences in a row go this way, but this is not the norm. I've never had it happen in over 10 years in the lifestyle, going to clubs, being involved in a variety of large group sexcapades including gangbangs and the like. I can definately understand how going through that twice would be enough to make you not want to try again, and that's your choice. But, please know that that is not the norm.

11-23-2008, 12:11 PM	#29 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: First time experience was a bad one. Was this the same club as the first experience? It definately sounds like some asshole guy found this girl and used her as a ticket (she may have already been a member and maybe she told him and he thought it was a great chance to get something/somewhere/ someone he wouldn't otherwise have the opportunity to do. I'm sorry that you've had two experiences in a row go this way, but this is not the norm. I've never had it happen in over 10 years in the lifestyle, going to clubs, being involved in a variety of large group sexcapades including gangbangs and the like. I can definately understand how going through that twice would be enough to make you not want to try again, and that's your choice. But, please know that that is not the norm.