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couplers · 11-22-2008, 08:47 PM

How did your situation turrn out?
I would lie to know because I (the female) am in a similar situation. Before I met my husband, David, I had a lover, Red, that I never gave up. David knew about Red when we first started dating and as we became more seriously emotionally involved he confronted me - and let me know that he had no problem with ime continuing the relationship. David wasn't seeing anyone else and was clear he wasn't looking for the same freedom. These are the only two men that I have been with (Red took my virginity at 17). While I have feelings for Red, it is friendship and sex, not the deep love I have for David.

11-22-2008, 08:47 PM	#19 (permalink)
couplers Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 368 Location: Memphis, Tennessee Status: couple	Re: letting the wife fly solo? How did your situation turrn out? I would lie to know because I (the female) am in a similar situation. Before I met my husband, David, I had a lover, Red, that I never gave up. David knew about Red when we first started dating and as we became more seriously emotionally involved he confronted me - and let me know that he had no problem with ime continuing the relationship. David wasn't seeing anyone else and was clear he wasn't looking for the same freedom. These are the only two men that I have been with (Red took my virginity at 17). While I have feelings for Red, it is friendship and sex, not the deep love I have for David.