We were members of a club a few years back and the parties were fun, but we never hooked up with anyone. Then again, we really are more into getting to know people a bit before jumping in the sack with them. That of course won't happen at a club unless you are regulars. We prefer to meet couples and singles for dinner or drinks first, then sharing pleasures if all are for it. We also decided to go to a nudist club and actually discovered much more tolerant people there and quite a few swingers in the group. But the focus there is not on sex, so I think it is much more relaxed. we are 225F and 255M , down from 245F and 330M last year. BTW, I'v found I get much more attention at 255 than I did at 330, go figure. We might try a swinger's club again if we are sure it will be worth out time and money, but it is not a high priority. For Wife2Love, I'd just say go and plan to have fun together, and if anything else happens , fine, if not, you had a good time anyway.
My hotmail and aolIM are both also vjklander, feel free to give me a shout anytime!!
J
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