Wife2Love, you are near TPA in Maryland. We are members there, and there are folks of ALL sizes, ages, and looks.
The first time we went, both my wife and remarked that "thank God, there are 'normal' people here."
Of course they have the 'beautiful people' too
It's a mix. And though I'm not one of the 'beautiful people" , I do enjoying looking at them
I don't know about the other local clubs. I suspect that it may be somewhat club specific- but not sure.
Come on in, the water is fine