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Old 11-17-2008, 01:33 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Did we say something wrong?

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Originally Posted by SoNew2This View Post
Is there a certain expectation for showing interest in a couple that is different than being in a regular club? During our first visit to an on-premise club, my husband and I were approached by several very attractive couples that we were both interested in, but I think we may have given them a false impression that we were not interested. Any thoughts?

What made you feel that they left with the wrong impression?

As someone above me said, many times people will make the rounds and talk to many people to try to open the door so that if you are interested you can find them again later. I would suggest that next time if you are approached by someone you are interested in and then they end up moving on, that you find them again later and let them know you are interested. Especially since you were new to the club, often people don't want to intimidate you or come off too pushy, so they end up leaving things in your ballpark.
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