The club that my husband and attended had a variety of people there. All different races, ages, heights, weights, backgrounds. Go and have a good time. There will be some people who won't approach you because of your weight. But there will be many more will want to get to know you. Be outgoing, fun, approachable and people won't ignore you.
The most important thing is to be comfortable within your own skin. You know you're great people, let others see that side of yourselves. If you're uncomfortable being overweight and being in the club, others will pick up on it.
You said you're both working out. That's wonderful. Keep it up. But don't be afraid to enjoy life right now.
Let us know how it goes. Have fun!
DragonsLair
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