Well we almost broke up over it...and I'm still not as enthusiastic as he is. The turning point for me was realizing that I am in control of the situation. If I don't want to do something I just say "no". I try not to hurt people's feelings unless they are aggressive, then I don't mind hurting feelings. I'm jealous but I've learned to manage it by realizing that he always goes home with me. He totally respects my wishes in every aspect of the lifestyle. And he loves it so much, it's so much a part of who he is....he's like a little puppy dog, I love him so how could I refuse? |