The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Who makes the first move when you're at someone's house?

Pensacolapair · 11-14-2008, 02:42 PM

Our experience has been that when invited to other's homes, they took the lead. We don't know whether it's universal, but that's always the way we approach it and conduct ourselves accordingly.

When we invite others to our home, we feel that we should take the lead...something that 'G' (our female half) has an exceptional talent for!! With 'experienced' couples, we've found that there's usually a high level of sexy flirting and suggestive banter that seems to move things toward playtime fairly quickly without much help. However, with 'newer' couples, the hot tub during cooler months or the pool during the warmer ones are both great ways to set a more relaxing and comfortable setting for the afore-mentioned flirting and suggestive chat to develop.

11-14-2008, 02:42 PM	#24 (permalink)
Pensacolapair Educated Posterior Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 183 Location: Florida Status: Couple - He (M )posts, She (G) vetos as required Swing Lifestyle Name:MandGinSD	Re: Who makes the first move when you're at someone's house? Our experience has been that when invited to other's homes, they took the lead. We don't know whether it's universal, but that's always the way we approach it and conduct ourselves accordingly. When we invite others to our home, we feel that we should take the lead...something that 'G' (our female half) has an exceptional talent for!! With 'experienced' couples, we've found that there's usually a high level of sexy flirting and suggestive banter that seems to move things toward playtime fairly quickly without much help. However, with 'newer' couples, the hot tub during cooler months or the pool during the warmer ones are both great ways to set a more relaxing and comfortable setting for the afore-mentioned flirting and suggestive chat to develop.
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