 Re: His actions with the female make me uncomfortable...
After our first couple of swing experiences with one couple, I thought that she was getting way too intimate with my husband- phoning him up to get off while her husband was out, and texting him constantly. I didn't like it, I said "It stops here" (even though sex with him was WAY hot!!), and my dear husband said yes, of course, and we haven't been back in touch with them since.
That is how a swinging relationship succeeds. If he can't understand that, then yes, it is time to step back and figure out what's really important here.
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