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MrkLin · 11-13-2008, 03:56 PM

I'd drop Trucker like a hot rock as well. It sounds like Fireman might be a problem too - you can do better.

For the first 8 years of our adventures in the lifestyle, we were looking exclusively for single males for Lin. One thing we insisted on was meeting any prospective playmates over coffee in a neutral public place, with the understanding that nothing else would happen that day. We'd spend an hour or two talking and just getting to know the person, then let him know that we'd be in touch. After the meeting, Lin and I would discuss what we thought of him, and whether or not we thought he'd be a good candidate for her. Some were, some weren't. If not, I contacted him and told him that we didn't think things would work between the three of us, and thank him for his understanding. If we thought he was a good candidate, she'd contact him and make further arrangements.

We still do the same thing with any potential playmates, whether they be couples or single males. We usually have a great time chatting whether there's a connection or not.

11-13-2008, 03:56 PM	#5 (permalink)
MrkLin Your Tent or Ours? Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 706 Location: mm Status: Couple	Re: Looking for the single male I'd drop Trucker like a hot rock as well. It sounds like Fireman might be a problem too - you can do better. For the first 8 years of our adventures in the lifestyle, we were looking exclusively for single males for Lin. One thing we insisted on was meeting any prospective playmates over coffee in a neutral public place, with the understanding that nothing else would happen that day. We'd spend an hour or two talking and just getting to know the person, then let him know that we'd be in touch. After the meeting, Lin and I would discuss what we thought of him, and whether or not we thought he'd be a good candidate for her. Some were, some weren't. If not, I contacted him and told him that we didn't think things would work between the three of us, and thank him for his understanding. If we thought he was a good candidate, she'd contact him and make further arrangements. We still do the same thing with any potential playmates, whether they be couples or single males. We usually have a great time chatting whether there's a connection or not.