to the Swinger's Board, Jonelle! I really hope this doesn't sound too brutal, but just some thoughts that came to mind when I was reading this. Please remember my opinions are just that -- Opinions.
What do you want out of this foursome?
You're taking one for the team, which is really a no-no. In fact, if my husband did something for me, even though he didn't want to, because I really wanted it, I'd feel horrible.
He does sound like he's in high school. I keep thinking it's that "Y" chromosome
, but sometimes guys just lose their minds when they think about swinging. I think they want back those feelings of newness with a new person and tingles in their nether regions. Swinging between consenting spouses is about
trust and
respect between both spouses.
We keep our swinging life very simple. Swinging is sex. No feelings of love or jealousy toward the other couple. We don't make the other feel insignificant or like poop. We are out to have fun. My spouse is my number one person in my life and no swinging partner is ever going to change that. I can't imagine my life without him.
Bring him here and let him read about swinging. There is a plethora of information here and he could ask questions if he has any.
